Juno
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I heart...Twilight!!=p
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May 14, 2010 19:17:45 GMT -5
Post by Juno on May 14, 2010 19:17:45 GMT -5
Hey, moonwalkers!
So, I dont mean to be the typical girl, but I really like this boy and I'm not sure if he's liking me the same way. He's a good friend of mine, and I honestly dont wanna ruin our friendship by telling him how I feel about him. I need some pointers on if hes liking me too, or not.
Thanks so much! And, it'd also be amazing if some dudes could give me a hand on what signs hes giving me.
Thanks!!!! ;D ;D
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May 14, 2010 21:02:07 GMT -5
Post by Joey on May 14, 2010 21:02:07 GMT -5
I could help. And I was in the same position about a month ago. I told her, and she didn't like me. But she was a true friend, so we are still great friends, like we were before. I say go for it. If he likes you, great! If not, if he is a real friend he won't care and you can get over the akwardness, and if he dosent, then he isn't worth being your friend.
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May 14, 2010 21:09:48 GMT -5
Post by Trinton on May 14, 2010 21:09:48 GMT -5
Tell him "I find you physically attractive" and see how he responds. At the very least, it'll be flattering. : D
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May 14, 2010 21:29:17 GMT -5
Post by Breepop on May 14, 2010 21:29:17 GMT -5
If he hungrily stares at you across the room, acts awkward and repulsed by you (only to act kind and warm days later), is annoyingly overprotective, watches you sleep at night from outside your window, and constantly saves your life in impossible situations, he probably likes you. I HAD TO. XD
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May 14, 2010 21:46:03 GMT -5
Post by Trey on May 14, 2010 21:46:03 GMT -5
This always worked on me, unfortunately:
Have one of your girl friends razz him in front of you. If he turns all red and laughs nervously and starts saying, "Noo wayy, no wayy!" He's into you. Don't razz him yourself, though. Act as if you had no involvement with it. Just act all pretty while she does it, and smile. Don't tease him or stare at the action too much, because he might take it as a cruel joke.
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May 14, 2010 21:55:02 GMT -5
Post by Johncoyne on May 14, 2010 21:55:02 GMT -5
The same thing just happened to me... I asked out a girl, we've been friends for a while, blah blah blah and she said no. That was a week ago. She still hasn't even made eye contact with me. I don't really know what to say to you, I guess it really depends how many friends you have. See, I don't have too many friends. So yeah, it hurt. I think she was actually surprised that I'm straight, lol.
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Juno
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I heart...Twilight!!=p
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May 15, 2010 10:09:33 GMT -5
Post by Juno on May 15, 2010 10:09:33 GMT -5
Ya. I mean, like i said, I dont wanna screw up the friendship we have. He means a lot to me. More than u guys could imagne.
plz! helppp!!!!!!SOS!WHAT SHOULD I DO!?
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May 15, 2010 10:13:34 GMT -5
Post by Joey on May 15, 2010 10:13:34 GMT -5
Ya. I mean, like i said, I dont wanna screw up the friendship we have. He means a lot to me. More than u guys could imagne. plz! helppp!!!!!!SOS!WHAT SHOULD I DO!? I said, if he is that good of friend, and isnt a douche, he will still be your friend. He might need some time and you might to get over the akwardness, but he will come back if he really loves you as a friend.
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TheIslander
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May 15, 2010 11:35:12 GMT -5
Post by TheIslander on May 15, 2010 11:35:12 GMT -5
Ya. I mean, like i said, I dont wanna screw up the friendship we have. He means a lot to me. More than u guys could imagne. plz! helppp!!!!!!SOS!WHAT SHOULD I DO!? Stop acting desperate and develop the friendship like a good friend would do.
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Juno
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I heart...Twilight!!=p
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May 15, 2010 20:18:22 GMT -5
Post by Juno on May 15, 2010 20:18:22 GMT -5
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May 15, 2010 20:30:21 GMT -5
Post by Trey on May 15, 2010 20:30:21 GMT -5
Imagine how WE feel xD If you don't know him too well, initiate a conversation with him. Give him very obvious signals that you're into him. If he's into you (Assuming he's confident enough), he'll most likely ask you out! If he doesn't, maybe you can ask a girl friend to IM him. Be all like, "You should ask whatsername out." (Idk your real name xD)
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MCPuppet
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I shall overcome
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May 16, 2010 0:03:38 GMT -5
Post by MCPuppet on May 16, 2010 0:03:38 GMT -5
If he hungrily stares at you across the room, acts awkward and repulsed by you (only to act kind and warm days later), is annoyingly overprotective, watches you sleep at night from outside your window, and constantly saves your life in impossible situations, he probably likes you. Awesome xD
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May 16, 2010 0:43:30 GMT -5
Post by Johncoyne on May 16, 2010 0:43:30 GMT -5
Wait a second... don't boys have cooties?
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May 16, 2010 12:03:13 GMT -5
Post by speedyreedy on May 16, 2010 12:03:13 GMT -5
@bree I laughed. You are hilarious.
@op Guys are weird. If he doesn't outright tell you he likes you, why not stay friends?
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Juno
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I heart...Twilight!!=p
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May 16, 2010 12:11:49 GMT -5
Post by Juno on May 16, 2010 12:11:49 GMT -5
sorry if im bugging u Trey. I didnt MEAN TO HAVE PROBLEMS! Its just, for awhile not a lot of boys like me, and he does listen to me and talks to me and hangs out with me, im just insane confused...and hes also a grade younger than me...
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May 16, 2010 22:18:10 GMT -5
Post by bagelz on May 16, 2010 22:18:10 GMT -5
do nothing. if he wants you bad enough he will make the first move. confessing this could make your friendship terribly awkward.
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RamblinReed
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Procrastinating from something awesome...
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May 16, 2010 22:47:49 GMT -5
Post by RamblinReed on May 16, 2010 22:47:49 GMT -5
Considering I have no back-story, there's not much I can do to help you at the moment. Just don't try to understand your emotions the minute you have them. Take your time to truly understand him, AND yourself. See if your compatible. Don't overthink it, Don't get stressed out. If it was meant to be, it'll be. Just don't rush it. @everyone: I have a feeling there's some tension in the thread between Mrs.RobertPattinson and everyone else. We can all have fun and have a laugh or two, but be a bit careful about how you word it. She wants help, not sarcasm. BUT, Mrs.RobertPattinson, keep in mind we don't HAVE to help you, so try to be a bit more polite. That being said... @bree: That was totally epic. haha! @mrs.RobertPattinson's last post: I think you MIGHT be mixing up love and friendship. I don't understand your reputation or status, but if he's one of few guys that talks to you and hangs out with you, that doesn't necessarily mean he's interested. He might be NICER to you than other boys, but that doesn't mean he loves you. Sorry to be a pessimist. Just tryin' to keep real! Again, I don't know much about the situation, so don't take my word for it.
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May 16, 2010 23:51:09 GMT -5
Post by Danielle on May 16, 2010 23:51:09 GMT -5
Just a tip, but if this is a heterosexual male over the age of twelve, you may want to play down the R. Patz obsession. I'm not sure how much of your internet persona leaks into your real life, but I don't know a single guy who digs that in a lady.
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May 17, 2010 1:06:37 GMT -5
Post by bombmaniac on May 17, 2010 1:06:37 GMT -5
serial killers dig ladies...
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May 17, 2010 6:14:35 GMT -5
Post by Trey on May 17, 2010 6:14:35 GMT -5
serial killers dig ladies... Yes, I do.
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