Need Girl Help, reason: Im dumb =P

[mashuga31]

k so i invited this girl i like to the movies, and she was all worrying about what to wear and putting on make up to look nice so i figured, hey this chick must actually like me.
We went to the movie but before it started she was talking about how she might be moving in with this guy at some point who she considers her boyfriend.
Well that got me all nervous and junk for if I should actually make a move.... i didnt. And then there was a moment on the drive back, it felt like all the other times i had been with a girl, just a moment you knew was the right moment. AND I TOTALLY IGNORED IT!!!

idk why though, ive never skipped out on one of those before. I suppose i just had the idea of another guy on my mind. The rest of the drive back she just looked really depressed. We 'hugged' goodbye when we got to her place. (rather tight actually >_>)

I checked her facebook and last night she posted that she was going on a date with someone today. =P That was me, and chances are she was into me and I blew it and all.

So heres where i need advice, what do I tell her? I wanna fix it, you know try and get another shot. I know she'll understand i just dont know how to word it....

Oh well thats being a tarded teenager for ya. Thanks for any advice.

[Nancy R.]

Uhm... It's been a long time since I've actually dated someone... Since I am only having one-night-stands (things are really clear when you're an adult, but you can't get in a relationship easily). But let's see, I may be able to give some advice. Well, if she wanted you to kiss her, she wouldn't be that silly to talk to you about some other guy. I mean, seriously, WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT? Maybe she likes you. The only way to find out is to have another date. The how you'll do it now is another story. Maybe you should tell her that you had a good time and that you want to repeat it. Btw, holy fuck, I am sure I know what girl you're talking about. If my guess is right, well, message me.

[Ryan]

Something to think about. It is not uncommon for younger girls to talk about "another guy". What you should pay attention to is the description of this guy. In many cases - the younger girl will describe the person she likes to the person she likes as someone else. I.e. if she likes you she might talk about some other guy being her boyfriend or that she really likes that has X, Y, and Z characteristics that you have. Pay attention to these.

Worst comes to worse, if she is describing another guy - broaching the subject via asking her out on more dates, is probably a good idea. Dates will lead to romance.

Also - you really have nothing to lose. If it's a yes, then it's all great. If it's a no, then you won't remember in 3 years anyway.

[Rogers91]

well my dateing experience is mostly garbage but heres a thought

basicly you should play it as if you meant to do what you did. ask here out on another date and if she asks about the last one mention that you where nervous. dont mention the other guy at all. if anything make here forget there is any other guy.

then again this advice is coming from a guys whos most successful date ended in a smashed car and a visit to the police station so uhhh might be best if you do what comes natural.

[Chelsea]

Aren't you like 16..? Why is she moving in with some guy? o.O

That's the only part that confuses me... But aside from that, it seems like she likes you. Maybe not. But the only way to find out is to talk to her. Just be upfront about your feelings and figure out what's going on. Bam. Easy.

[Jackson]

*Looks around for trolls*

Phew, we're good. Yeah, she obviously likes you, so just go talk to her or something. (I'm sorry, I give shitty advice.)

[mashuga31]

i maed it work :3

Yeah, turns out i wasnt wrong about her liking me. also were all turnong 17 chelsea. her in two weeks me in a month. its not uncommon for kids to move out our age. i know several people who are engaged. wastin their good years if ya ask me.

[chamoky]

I'm glad it worked out