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Post by sarawhatwho on May 23, 2011 20:26:33 GMT -5
Okay sooo. Here goes. I got dumped. Dumped hard. So did my friend Andrew. Andrew is...well...HAWT. And his friend says that he thinks I'm not too shabby. I don't exactly have a big crush on him or anything, but I think we'd work out. So a few minutes ago we had this exact conversation. S: I need to find a new Squanto (My friends say I look like Pocahontas and my old boyfriend was Squanto.) A: Yeah I know what you mean S: I keep saying I'm gonna have fun being single, but I really hate it. A: Same here  S: It's okay. You'll find someone. You're such a cool guy  A: Aw thanks. So are you. I mean, a cool girl lol. S: Thanks  Soo...do you like anyone? A: Nah not really. S: I see. Uhm. SHIRT. Do you think I have a chance? |
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Post by Insane_Zang on May 23, 2011 20:45:49 GMT -5
Yes. Very simple answer. Life is short. Fucking go for it
/thread
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Post by Freddy on May 23, 2011 20:54:47 GMT -5
^That.
And I'm sorry about you getting dumped.
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Post by Insane_Zang on May 23, 2011 20:58:33 GMT -5
When I end the thread, it means you shouldn't reply >.>
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Post by sarawhatwho on May 23, 2011 21:10:01 GMT -5
Well I'm gonna reply. Sorry.
I want to just go for it...but I have to see this kid everyday. And I mean...what if I make a fool of myself?
Akwardness for life.
And my self esteem isn't exactly the highest.
But you are right Zang. I just gotta quit worrying.
And thanks for the sympathy Freddy. Lol.
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Post by bombmaniac on May 23, 2011 21:15:03 GMT -5
rofl its high school...calm yo titz |
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Post by Chelsea on May 23, 2011 21:15:47 GMT -5
Andrew is...well...HAWT. And his friend says that he thinks I'm not too shabby. I don't exactly have a big crush on him or anything, but I think we'd work out. Don't bother. If you JUST got out of a relationship, and you don't really like this guy, then it's dumb to go for it just for the sake of being in a relationship. DON'T BE THAT GIRL. I really hate that girl... |
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Post by sarawhatwho on May 23, 2011 21:19:05 GMT -5
Andrew is...well...HAWT. And his friend says that he thinks I'm not too shabby. I don't exactly have a big crush on him or anything, but I think we'd work out. Don't bother. If you JUST got out of a relationship, and you don't really like this guy, then it's dumb to go for it just for the sake of being in a relationship. DON'T BE THAT GIRL. I really hate that girl... No no. After I poted I kinda realized that's how I was coming across. Even if Andrew did like me, I'm staying single all summer. But I mean, I do like him. It's hard to explain. I'm not like, jizzing in my pants everytime he comes around or anything. But I do have sort of a crush. |
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Post by Chelsea on May 23, 2011 21:46:32 GMT -5
Don't bother. If you JUST got out of a relationship, and you don't really like this guy, then it's dumb to go for it just for the sake of being in a relationship. DON'T BE THAT GIRL. I really hate that girl... No no. After I poted I kinda realized that's how I was coming across. Even if Andrew did like me, I'm staying single all summer. But I mean, I do like him. It's hard to explain. I'm not like, jizzing in my pants everytime he comes around or anything. But I do have sort of a crush. Ok, that's not as bad then... But I still don't feel like you should really even worry about.. If it's just a crush, then you probably wouldn't be devastated if nothing happens. I'd say just go with the flow.. See if hanging out with him as friends makes you like him any more, and if at some point you feel it's a good idea, go for it.. |
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Post by Insane_Zang on May 23, 2011 22:41:06 GMT -5
I hate to say it but I agree with Chelsea. Just hang out with him more. See where it goes from there. Also, about the awkward thing. Bask in the awkwardness. That's how I get through high school
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Post by Draemora on May 23, 2011 23:37:38 GMT -5
My advice probably doesn't work -I'm basically a certified foreveralone- but this is what I think...
Don't be with him for the sake of being in a relationship. Try to hang out with him and see if something flourishes. You should definitively try to have no expectations; that way you won't get hurt if things, for some reason, go for the worst. Also, never let your life revolve around relationships. That may be difficult in high school, but it does have a direct effect on your self esteem. The best I can say is be yourself, and live for for yourself.
Just because you could be in a relationship, doesn't mean you should.
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Post by Nancy R. on May 24, 2011 0:25:58 GMT -5
I think that they summed it up. Don't get in a rebound relationship. The results are very bad. And trust me, I've been through that. Maybe your situation is a bit different, but be careful.
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Post by Ryan on May 24, 2011 2:29:02 GMT -5
If you like him ask him out. If not - don't.
Very simple. There is no awkwardness when you accept that if he says no - he says no, but if he says yes then all is good. Be straightforward and honest. Best way to go.
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Post by sarawhatwho on May 24, 2011 9:29:10 GMT -5
Thanks all :3
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Post by Insane_Zang on May 24, 2011 17:38:21 GMT -5
Keep us updated
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Post by Quinn on May 24, 2011 21:37:39 GMT -5
It isn't always awkward with someone after being said no to...
GO FOR IT!
(just do it)
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Post by sarawhatwho on May 24, 2011 21:58:59 GMT -5
Okay well I have kind of re-evaluated the situation.
I like Andrew. I honestly do.
But....I think he likes someone else.
I said something really stupid and immature to him today and now I feel like an idiot.
He seems okay with it but...I just feel like I don't have a chance at all now.
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Post by Insane_Zang on May 24, 2011 22:23:46 GMT -5
I really shouldn't be this involved but I'm bored so you should elaborate
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Post by Rob on May 29, 2011 11:32:04 GMT -5
Just hang out with the dude. If you feel you like him, tell him. If it's not mutual, oh well, no matter. If it is...  |
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