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Apr 17, 2010 1:06:13 GMT -5
Post by Ryan on Apr 17, 2010 1:06:13 GMT -5
So, I'm posting here for some advice. I know there is a pogo advice channel, but I think I would rather keep this one in writing.
I am currently infatuated with someone. I always thought it was a crush, but I keep getting told that it is actually infatuation, since I in no way know this person.
Anyways - I decided I would do something about my infatuation. The problem is I do not know this person, which makes it hard to do anything. So I have written a letter.
The reason I am asking advice, is whether or not I should share this letter.
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Apr 17, 2010 1:08:25 GMT -5
Post by Breepop on Apr 17, 2010 1:08:25 GMT -5
...How creepy is the letter? XD
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Apr 17, 2010 2:01:29 GMT -5
Post by Rob on Apr 17, 2010 2:01:29 GMT -5
I would paradoxically need to know the contents of the letter before I could figure out whether or not you should share it.
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Apr 17, 2010 6:11:26 GMT -5
Post by Ryan on Apr 17, 2010 6:11:26 GMT -5
In the letter I explain that the person is beautiful, although I have only seen them from afar. I explain that this infatuation is new to me, I have never experienced it before. I explain why I'm writing the letter. And I then put the decision of what to do next in their hands.
That sums it up. I think the letter is relatively not creepy at all. Then again, any letter that explains infatuation from person you've never met is going to be remotely creepy just b/c its from a person you've never met...
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Apr 19, 2010 0:27:27 GMT -5
Post by speedyreedy on Apr 19, 2010 0:27:27 GMT -5
Has anyone else seen it. Maybe share it with a close friend and see what they think. I would think that it's a little weird if you know that persons address but never met them...
Still, if the letter comes across as genuine, it could be seen as a nice gesture.
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Apr 19, 2010 1:14:22 GMT -5
Post by Ryan on Apr 19, 2010 1:14:22 GMT -5
I have shared it with a friend and decided to burn it. I feel better now.
TY all for the advice you have given!
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Apr 19, 2010 1:24:57 GMT -5
Post by Breepop on Apr 19, 2010 1:24:57 GMT -5
Oop, we all know what creep Ryan is now.
Cool.
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Apr 19, 2010 8:07:14 GMT -5
Post by zAkAtAk on Apr 19, 2010 8:07:14 GMT -5
The reason I am asking advice, is whether or not I should share this letter. Just my 2 cents. I might be a little creeped out if I found at that someone was watching over me and was writing about me. I would much rather the person tell me themself that they like me, rather than gazed from afar. Also, a letter only forms one way of communication. I assume you are going to give him the letter and then leave which means that he doesn't get to tell you right away how he feels, which kinda sucks. Personal interactions>secret letters
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Apr 19, 2010 9:34:49 GMT -5
Post by Ryan on Apr 19, 2010 9:34:49 GMT -5
*debates changing his title from 'thinker' to 'creeper'*
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Apr 19, 2010 12:28:01 GMT -5
Post by Breepop on Apr 19, 2010 12:28:01 GMT -5
I assume you are going to give him the letter and then leave which means that he doesn't get to tell you right away how he feels, which kinda sucks. He..? Dang.
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Apr 19, 2010 12:42:40 GMT -5
Post by Ricky on Apr 19, 2010 12:42:40 GMT -5
If you were going to send him/her a letter then I suppose you have some sort of way of communicating. Try talking to the person, not declaring your attraction, but just get to know them. Most likely scenario is that either you stop having those feelings or you still do but they get to know you too.
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Apr 19, 2010 12:51:09 GMT -5
Post by Ryan on Apr 19, 2010 12:51:09 GMT -5
@ Bree - sorry And I figured out what must be done, so now I just have to go ahead and find a good time to do it. Thanks everyone
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Apr 19, 2010 13:13:23 GMT -5
Post by Breepop on Apr 19, 2010 13:13:23 GMT -5
@ Bree - sorry Hahahah, no need to apologize to me.
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Apr 19, 2010 13:13:33 GMT -5
Post by zAkAtAk on Apr 19, 2010 13:13:33 GMT -5
I assume you are going to give him the letter and then leave which means that he doesn't get to tell you right away how he feels, which kinda sucks. He..? Dang. Sorry, I assume everyone is a he.
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Apr 19, 2010 13:41:31 GMT -5
Post by Ryan on Apr 19, 2010 13:41:31 GMT -5
bree's a he?
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Apr 19, 2010 13:59:53 GMT -5
Post by Breepop on Apr 19, 2010 13:59:53 GMT -5
Do you want me to be!? <_< >_>
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Apr 19, 2010 14:00:42 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Apr 19, 2010 14:00:42 GMT -5
@ Bree - sorry And I figured out what must be done, so now I just have to go ahead and find a good time to do it. Thanks everyone NOOOZ DON'T JUMP you've got a whole life ahead of you!
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Apr 19, 2010 21:34:31 GMT -5
Post by Ryan on Apr 19, 2010 21:34:31 GMT -5
I'm not zAk bree - you're you and should never change
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Apr 19, 2010 22:35:50 GMT -5
Post by UnfairBear on Apr 19, 2010 22:35:50 GMT -5
This is far too late. Oh well. I wudda said to send it cuz then if they are creeped out at least its from a distance. I'm not sure if that makes sense. But yeah. It's kind of a cute gesture but you'd have to rely on them only liking you back look-wise rather than giving them a chance to like you back for who you are by getting to know you...
/useless.
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Apr 21, 2010 21:01:35 GMT -5
Post by Ryan on Apr 21, 2010 21:01:35 GMT -5
Problem solved - I just asked them what I would've in the letter, answer = no.
I'm sad now - but can now move on. (thought I'd keep everyone updated)
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