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Post by SquiggleTag on Apr 26, 2010 12:16:35 GMT -5
so theres this girl in my class ... (the only girl in my class to be honest). She has realy nice eyes and seems kindah cute but im not sure what to do because i know for a fact that shes not interested in me.
what should i do ?
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Post by PunchJunky on Apr 26, 2010 12:21:45 GMT -5
Beat her with a Stick and drag her back to your cave....
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Approach, talk (nicely), compliment, find common ground, ask if you can walk her to her next class. Something along those lines.
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Post by newschooled on Apr 26, 2010 12:26:00 GMT -5
Tell her you're gay. Then she'll want you cuz of the "forbidden fruit" factor. No pun intended.
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Post by kadie on Apr 26, 2010 12:37:41 GMT -5
Approach, talk (nicely), compliment, find common ground, ask if you can walk her to her next class. Something along those lines. Don't ask her if you can walk her to her next class aske her if you can walk with her. Don't make out like you think she needs a male escort or something cause that would really piss me off if I were in her shoes. It night not piss her off but better safe then sorry right?? Also if you are going to compliment her make sure they are not hollow compliments just for the sake of saying something nice. and don't lie. If she says she likes something that you hate don't pretend to like them just to have something in common with her cause that'll come back to bite you in the butt. And you know what they say, opposites attract xx lol Good luck, I guess x
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Post by zAkAtAk on Apr 26, 2010 12:38:19 GMT -5
Have you tried asking her out?
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Post by Trey on Apr 26, 2010 13:56:04 GMT -5
Make sure she knows you exist first
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Post by click3tyclick on Apr 26, 2010 14:00:09 GMT -5
i know for a fact that shes not interested in me. Have you even tried? She won't be interested in you if she doesn't really know you. If you have and she really isn't interested, there's nothing you can do.
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Post by RabbitWho on Apr 26, 2010 15:16:49 GMT -5
On youtube some guy said that when he was in high school he used to quote Douglas Adams to girls and it made them think he was really deep and fall in love with him. I think I would try that.
Other than that i've no advice because I am the worlds worst at dating and all that stuff
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Post by Ryan on Apr 26, 2010 15:26:08 GMT -5
Confidence but not arrogance. When you doubt yourself - others will doubt you.
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Post by jamiepaulcash on Apr 26, 2010 15:32:16 GMT -5
Just talk to her normally, and then if she likes you more than a friend, you're in. If you try to hard she's only going to notice you acting differently eventually.
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Post by AkeR on Apr 26, 2010 15:41:38 GMT -5
Just talk to her normally, and then if she likes you more than a friend, you're in. If you try to hard she's only going to notice you acting differently eventually. this aske her if you can walk with her. Don't make out like you think she needs a male escort or something cause that would really piss me off if I were in her shoes. It night not piss her off but better safe then sorry right?? Also if you are going to compliment her make sure they are not hollow compliments just for the sake of saying something nice. and don't lie. If she says she likes something that you hate don't pretend to like them just to have something in common with her cause that'll come back to bite you in the butt. and this be yourself but try to be as friendly as possible. confidence is key.
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Post by Johncoyne on Apr 26, 2010 16:43:20 GMT -5
Hypnotize her. Trust me. It ALWAYS works. And if it doesn't, I'd stick with Punchjunky's advice.
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Post by TheIslander on Apr 26, 2010 19:33:12 GMT -5
Speak to her like you would a normal person, flirt. Tell her you're gay. Then she'll want you cuz of the "forbidden fruit" factor. No pun intended. Lol.
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Post by iamagnostic on Apr 27, 2010 16:46:18 GMT -5
Simple enough, if yu only think she's cute, why bother? Wait until you actually like someone, jeez. And judging by the advice I got, don't listen to anyone on SPOTM :]
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Post by SquiggleTag on Apr 27, 2010 17:05:48 GMT -5
Simple enough, if yu only think she's cute, why bother? Wait until you actually like someone, jeez. And judging by the advice I got, don't listen to anyone on SPOTM :] agreed. so i think i can safely say that this is now Case Closed?
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Post by shinigami345 on Apr 27, 2010 17:48:57 GMT -5
watch her body if she starts preening( fixing her cloths playing with her hair) shes interested if she sticks up to emphasize her breasts shes interested if her eyes blink more than usual shes batting her eye lashes for you = interested. theres tons more ways to tell but those are the first that came to my mind
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Post by SquiggleTag on Apr 28, 2010 9:44:40 GMT -5
so i think i can safely say that this is now Case Closed? Yes. see the thing is this guy caught on to my sort-of likeing her and asked me in public ... thats when i learned that she wasn't looking for a relationship. oh well ... i'll be ok ... this sort of thing always happens to me.
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Post by RabbitWho on Apr 30, 2010 17:28:21 GMT -5
watch her body if she starts preening( fixing her cloths playing with her hair) shes interested if she sticks up to emphasize her breasts shes interested if her eyes blink more than usual shes batting her eye lashes for you = interested. theres tons more ways to tell but those are the first that came to my mind You've spent a lot of time studying chimps, I can tell
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Post by Joey on Apr 30, 2010 20:36:47 GMT -5
I think a good sign is if she starts trying to trap you in a dark room with handcuffs....wait, that sounded wrong.
I meant what everyone else said above...yea.
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