Post by narwhalftw on May 7, 2010 20:02:36 GMT -5
Hi, I'm new, plz to halps n00b.
My name is Priscilla (already this feels like an AA conference or something), I'm 15, and I'm kinda in a predicament. I've grown up in a strictly Christian home- my parents were missionaries, my sister was born in Mali, and I was conceived there, we go to church every single Sunday, my dad sends me on church mission trips, etc. All my dad really talks about is religion or my bad grade in English or my addiction to the internet (but mostly religion). He's super ecstatic about Christianity, is evangelical, he's always telling us stories of his "wondrous adventures with God" and such. It's not like he's a hater on all the other religions, but he pretty much never talks about them, unless it's about someone who he met who isn't Christian, and he gets all teary-eyed and tells us all how he's working to convert them. He's even got my little sister trying to convert my Bangladeshi friend's little sister, and all my friend tells me is to tell her to stop, because he finds it offensive. My older sister is really Christian as well, and I'm pretty sure my mom is, but when she's in her drunken and/or chronic depression state of mind, she tells me otherwise.
But yeahhh, the thing is, last November-ish I started not liking the people at my church, either because they were hypocritical or crazy or assholes. After I started to see through the people around me, I also started to see the holes in the religion my life has so far been centered around. I questioned all the things going on in the Bible, the way people say they can hear God's voice talking to them, and the philosophies of the Christian religion. Things that Jesus did seemed improbable, the book of Revelations seemed only to be written by some trippin' or insane person , and the way that God looks down upon gays and such seemed like an utter bitch move, etc etc etc.
So now I'm pretty sure I'd be classified as an atheist, even though I don't have a religion at all, and respect those with their own way of worship, and I admit I have no idea how it's gonna be when I die. But I do know that I can't really stand pretty much being forced to go to church every Sunday, after every meal reading a chapter of the Bible, and having to try and hold a conversation with my dad about Christianity that won't reveal how I actually feel. I have a feeling that (since I wasn't given the freedom of religion and open-minded parents that Dan got), that if my dad found out how I felt, that he would either kick me out or every day for the rest of my life be judging me and/or trying to convert me at every moment he can. But I really don't know what I should do. I haven't even told my friends about any of this, and they still regard we as a Christian, and treat me as such. I don't really like it.
PLZ HALPS I DUNNO WHAT TO DO
My name is Priscilla (already this feels like an AA conference or something), I'm 15, and I'm kinda in a predicament. I've grown up in a strictly Christian home- my parents were missionaries, my sister was born in Mali, and I was conceived there, we go to church every single Sunday, my dad sends me on church mission trips, etc. All my dad really talks about is religion or my bad grade in English or my addiction to the internet (but mostly religion). He's super ecstatic about Christianity, is evangelical, he's always telling us stories of his "wondrous adventures with God" and such. It's not like he's a hater on all the other religions, but he pretty much never talks about them, unless it's about someone who he met who isn't Christian, and he gets all teary-eyed and tells us all how he's working to convert them. He's even got my little sister trying to convert my Bangladeshi friend's little sister, and all my friend tells me is to tell her to stop, because he finds it offensive. My older sister is really Christian as well, and I'm pretty sure my mom is, but when she's in her drunken and/or chronic depression state of mind, she tells me otherwise.
But yeahhh, the thing is, last November-ish I started not liking the people at my church, either because they were hypocritical or crazy or assholes. After I started to see through the people around me, I also started to see the holes in the religion my life has so far been centered around. I questioned all the things going on in the Bible, the way people say they can hear God's voice talking to them, and the philosophies of the Christian religion. Things that Jesus did seemed improbable, the book of Revelations seemed only to be written by some trippin' or insane person , and the way that God looks down upon gays and such seemed like an utter bitch move, etc etc etc.
So now I'm pretty sure I'd be classified as an atheist, even though I don't have a religion at all, and respect those with their own way of worship, and I admit I have no idea how it's gonna be when I die. But I do know that I can't really stand pretty much being forced to go to church every Sunday, after every meal reading a chapter of the Bible, and having to try and hold a conversation with my dad about Christianity that won't reveal how I actually feel. I have a feeling that (since I wasn't given the freedom of religion and open-minded parents that Dan got), that if my dad found out how I felt, that he would either kick me out or every day for the rest of my life be judging me and/or trying to convert me at every moment he can. But I really don't know what I should do. I haven't even told my friends about any of this, and they still regard we as a Christian, and treat me as such. I don't really like it.
PLZ HALPS I DUNNO WHAT TO DO