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Post by zAkAtAk on Jul 5, 2010 19:26:22 GMT -5
rule #1: there are no rules
rule #2: ignore rule #4
rule #3: do what you feel is right. you shouldn't restrict yourself to anything less than or more than yourself.
rule #4: have you tried sex?
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Post by lolsall on Jul 5, 2010 19:51:40 GMT -5
Teenagers being incappable of love is a HUGE misconception. I have found love in my life and jus now turning 15 me and my gf have been together 8 months. We have talked about it and we both realise that we really do love eachother. The right time to tell her that you love her is when ur absoulutly sure you really do love her. Even then dont jus say "i love you", try and start talkin about about you really care about eachother then choose the right time to say it.
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Post by zAkAtAk on Jul 5, 2010 23:28:10 GMT -5
give it time lolsall.
8 months is nothing
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Post by Benyamin on Jul 6, 2010 0:27:48 GMT -5
Say "i luv you" when you love her
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Post by lolsall on Jul 6, 2010 0:49:19 GMT -5
give it time lolsall. 8 months is nothing just because you had a bad experience doesnt mean its going to happen to everyone |
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Post by Joey on Jul 6, 2010 0:56:41 GMT -5
my brother has loved and he's 18. My brother and his gf have been dating for three years now, and probably will get married in the next few, theyy are both too stupid to break up(I love my brother and his gf but god dammit 2+3=/=8. Seriously you should wath them try to do homework together. "wait what country did we fight in the civil war?" seriously, that was something she asked)
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Post by zAkAtAk on Jul 6, 2010 8:09:09 GMT -5
give it time lolsall. 8 months is nothing just because you had a bad experience doesnt mean its going to happen to everyone I'm only saying that it's impossible to tell if you LOVE someone after only 8 months. You can have a deep attraction for them, but that is not the same thing as love. 8 months isn't long enough. But whatever, I'm not you. Have fun being OMG BF/GF I LOVE YOU KISSY FACE KISSY FACE KISSY FACE |
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Post by velvetdivorce on Jul 6, 2010 8:16:39 GMT -5
Yeah I remember once my boyfriend called me beautiful and I had to castrate him for it.
What an arsehole.
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Post by earth on Jul 6, 2010 12:37:29 GMT -5
i tell that to close friends. that are girls. so idk.
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Post by ladystardust on Jul 19, 2010 11:11:36 GMT -5
my brother has loved and he's 18. My brother and his gf have been dating for three years now, and probably will get married in the next few, theyy are both too stupid to break up(I love my brother and his gf but god dammit 2+3=/=8. Seriously you should wath them try to do homework together. "wait what country did we fight in the civil war?" seriously, that was something she asked) When I was 19, I entered into a relationship with a fantastic guy. We fell in love, moved in together (eventually) and started planning a future. However, nearly five years later, we came to the traumatic realization that we simply weren't in love the way we used to be. We still cared about each other a great deal, but we both knew the relationship was over. At 23, I wasn't the same person I was when I was 19. I didn't have the same beliefs about life, long term goals, or priorities. As such, what I wanted/needed in a life partner was drastically different. He has since met a beautiful woman, and they have a baby together. I have been with my current partner for three or four years, and I love him to death. Moral of the story: Don't be offended when you hear: "But you're still so young. You haven't figured out who you are yet." There is no such thing as THE ONE, as in the one and only person for you. There can be someone perfect for you at every stage of your life, but that can change. |
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Post by NormanTheOne on Jul 19, 2010 13:37:00 GMT -5
Wisdom through experience is an extremely valuable wisdom, use it.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2010 14:27:22 GMT -5
Teenagers being incappable of love is a HUGE misconception. I have found love in my life and jus now turning 15 me and my gf have been together 8 months. We have talked about it and we both realise that we really do love eachother. The right time to tell her that you love her is when ur absoulutly sure you really do love her. Even then dont jus say "i love you", try and start talkin about about you really care about eachother then choose the right time to say it. You may care for her very deeply, but you don't love her. Me? I was in the exact same situation. The only difference was that we had been going out for 1 year and 2-3 months. What happened? I broke it off. You come to realize that this is just High School. Loving someone means that you want to spend the rest of your life with them. Trust me, you DON'T want to make that kind of commitment in high school.. Yeah, I was just like you, I thought we had something special, I blew the haters off, but they were right. They were absolutely right. Now, looking back on everything, I realize that it shouldn't have lasted that long in the first place. High School should be a time for trying new (but safe and legal) things. Experience new people, and don't let yourself be held down in a relationship as a young teenager. It's okay if you think I'm just hating, or if I just had a "bad experience", but you'll realize that I'm right one day. Your relationship is not a unique experience to the world, it's happened before. Anyway, have a nice day  P.S. Read LadyStarDust's post. That basically sums up what I'm talking about. |
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Post by snow11 on Jul 19, 2010 16:42:35 GMT -5
Chelsea, have you not see the 13 year old dad on the web!? Joey is definitely not too young.
(i just wanted to prove Chelsea wrong. Continue with your discussion)
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Post by xxxsepirothxxx on Jul 19, 2010 17:00:18 GMT -5
Chelsea, have you not see the 13 year old dad on the web!? Joey is definitely not too young. (i just wanted to prove Chelsea wrong. Continue with your discussion) having sex =/= being in love you have much to learn young padawan |
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Post by Lex on Jul 19, 2010 17:44:50 GMT -5
You may care for her very deeply, but you don't love her. That is THE MOST ridiculous thing I've read all day. I don't think you have the authority to dictate how people feel. |
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Post by chelseeyuh on Jul 19, 2010 17:47:42 GMT -5
Chelsea, have you not see the 13 year old dad on the web!? Joey is definitely not too young. (i just wanted to prove Chelsea wrong. Continue with your discussion) having sex =/= being in love you have much to learn young padawan ^that Silly Leo, trying to prove me wrong. XD |
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Post by 4iner on Jul 19, 2010 22:55:57 GMT -5
You may care for her very deeply, but you don't love her. Lol wtf. r u serious? |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2010 23:59:56 GMT -5
You may care for her very deeply, but you don't love her. Lol wtf. r u serious? Uh, ya. i r srs |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2010 1:07:16 GMT -5
Perhaps some of you misunderstood what I said.
Caring about someone =/= love.
I would be sad if my ex died, and I would do my best to help her if anything serious were to ever happen to her, but I don't love her.
I'm sorry if I offended anyone, I'm just recalling an experience that I had, and that I know many, many others have had before.
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Post by ladystardust on Jul 20, 2010 11:52:20 GMT -5
You may care for her very deeply, but you don't love her. That is THE MOST ridiculous thing I've read all day. I don't think you have the authority to dictate how people feel. I think that, while he is not correct, Robert is fairly close. We've all heard the term "puppy love." We've also all heard that there are many different kinds of love. When we are young and meet someone special for the first time, with our pubescent hormones in overdrive, it is easy to be feel desperately "in love" with someone. It is not the deep, meaningful, selfless love of adults, but it is love, though I also firmly believe it is a lesser form of love. |
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