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Post by Rogers91 on Jul 20, 2010 14:07:16 GMT -5
okay so that clears an interesting image that brings me to say this... if it other people that are makeing things diufficult then they are stupid. finding time is difficult but part of being in a relationship. i thought this was different schools or some other sort of extenuating territory. if its just that you dont want to work very hard to keep the relationship going then we cant help you. understand that one year is not that big that your friends need be more supportive or they aren't really your friends and same on her end. this really is nothing more than common high school teenage drama and if you cant work through it then you have alot to learn. you really shouldn't care what other people think...
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Post by Joey on Jul 20, 2010 14:08:26 GMT -5
Okay, the only way I could contact her was through email, so I just emailed her. I'm going on vacation tommorow so now I have to worry about this. FML
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Post by Rogers91 on Jul 20, 2010 14:11:29 GMT -5
don't let this ruin your vacation. (you wont get many more outside of high school) write a reminder on a calendar to work on this kind of stuff and don't think about it while on your vacation... have fun
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Post by zAkAtAk on Jul 20, 2010 14:46:22 GMT -5
Side note: my aunt and uncle met in 9th grade. They've been married twenty nine years and still love eachother very much. I've never seen them get angry at eachother. God you are so absent-minded. Please, continue making words.
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Post by Rogers91 on Jul 20, 2010 14:52:22 GMT -5
zak don't be so grumpy.
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Post by chelseeyuh on Jul 20, 2010 15:16:40 GMT -5
Yes. The reason it would be difficult for me is because of different grades. There are seperate dances for each, and we are in opposite sides of the school, and with two minutes, it's impossible to see her. We aren't in the same activities. And it's kindof taboo at our school. Her friends don't like me very much because I'm younger. I feel really weird around them. Also, she basically refuses to hang out with my friends because it's super akward. I feel like both of us knew it wasn't going to last long, I just never thought I'd be the one to say it. And you can't see each other outside of school because...?
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Post by bombmaniac on Jul 20, 2010 15:19:40 GMT -5
because when else would he be on the internet?
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Post by Joey on Jul 20, 2010 15:59:08 GMT -5
1. Bomb...exactly! 2. But really, Im sort of glad I get a sort of retreat. 3. We cant see eachother outside of school because we arent in the same groups. Its not that our friends dont like us, its just that its super akward, and It ends usually in hurt feelings all around. I mainly broke up with her(waiting for reply) because we both kindof felt that way, and I felt that it was the right thing to do, and sometimes in life you have to go with your gut, and my gut told me we should only be friends.
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Post by Breepop on Jul 20, 2010 16:12:27 GMT -5
WAIT. YOU BROKE UP WITH HER THROUGH E-MAIL? NO.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2010 16:13:06 GMT -5
1. Bomb...exactly! 2. But really, Im sort of glad I get a sort of retreat. 3. We cant see eachother outside of school because we arent in the same groups. Its not that our friends dont like us, its just that its super akward, and It ends usually in hurt feelings all around. I mainly broke up with her(waiting for reply) because we both kindof felt that way, and I felt that it was the right thing to do, and sometimes in life you have to go with your gut, and my gut told me we should only be friends. Please don't tell me you broke up with her through any form of textual communication method...
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Post by Joey on Jul 20, 2010 16:13:53 GMT -5
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO left her a message on her phone and waiting for her to call back. I just told her we need to talk.
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Post by Breepop on Jul 20, 2010 16:15:37 GMT -5
Oh. Oh.
Okay.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2010 16:16:30 GMT -5
My thoughts exactly... *wipes brow in relief*
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Post by Joey on Jul 20, 2010 16:16:32 GMT -5
Thanks for having faith in me -__-
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Post by Breepop on Jul 20, 2010 16:19:05 GMT -5
uh... Okay, the only way I could contact her was through email, so I just emailed her. I'm going on vacation tommorow so now I have to worry about this. FML I'm sorry for reading what you said? *shrugs*
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Post by Joey on Jul 20, 2010 16:24:43 GMT -5
uh... Okay, the only way I could contact her was through email, so I just emailed her. I'm going on vacation tommorow so now I have to worry about this. FML I'm sorry for reading what you said? *shrugs* I meant that she was currently online, and it was after I left a message. She got off right before I sent it. All it said was "call me"
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Post by TheIslander on Jul 20, 2010 18:21:12 GMT -5
Side note: my aunt and uncle met in 9th grade. They've been married twenty nine years and still love eachother very much. I've never seen them get angry at eachother. God you are so absent-minded. Please, continue making words. Met doesn't mean they fell in love and lived happily ever after. Met means they were acquaintances. AKA The ugly b*tch that sits in front might grow tits and a sense of humour in ten years time... and might end up your wife. Aren't you like 14 Picnic?
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Post by shadow6000 on Jul 20, 2010 18:39:33 GMT -5
Now, I'm not saying this because I have a whole hell of a lot of faith in high school relationships, because I don't, but my grandparents did start dating at 16, and they're like, 75 now. They can last, but it's extremely unlikely, and I'll be the first to admit that my grandparents are the exception, not the rule.
Yes, off topic from the things just said, but hey. I got here late.
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Post by Joey on Jul 20, 2010 19:00:03 GMT -5
Yes I'm 14. Does that mean I can't have a girlfriend?
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Post by TheIslander on Jul 20, 2010 19:02:55 GMT -5
Yes I'm 14. Does that mean I can't have a girlfriend? No it actually means you can and will have one, actually more than one hence the reason why you're fussing over nothing. Be happy.
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