Breaking up :(

[Joey]

Hey, I'm new at this, and I Need help.

[Breepop]

Daaaang picnic, you need to relax.

I know it seems like you're going through some tough stuff right now, but trust me, millions of people before you have gone through the exact same stuff... and they're perfectly fine.

There are also many more millions of people who go through much, much tougher stuff on a daily basis. At least you have Internet. And food. And a place to live. And your youth.

clam dwon boy

[bombmaniac]

clam dwon

if youre dyslexic and cross eyed...can you see straight?

[Tony, the one and only]

ok all i have to say is this:

"don't let conflicts of the minde become those of the heart"

if you still love her STAY WITH HER . DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT WHAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY OR WHAT THEY THINK. TELL THEM TO GET THERE NOSES OUT OF YOUR LOVE LIFE AND LEAVE YOU TWO ALONE!

srly man, your making things more complicated than they are, and if the time comes that you do need to actually break up for a REAL REASON, not just because it will be difficult to see each other, than ill give you some solid advice on how to do so.

[ladystardust]

My dear, dear child. It is perfectly normal for this to feel like it's the end of the world, but please remember that it isn't. I was a 14 year-old girl once, and I can still remember how every relationship problem/ending was a cataclysmic event. Don't get upset if someone looks down on you for it, because there's nothing wrong with that kind of attitude at your age.

Now, as for this specific issue: honesty is extremely important, as people have said, but what people don't often realize is that it is so very easy to miscommunicate what you're trying to say, and have it come out all wrong. Try writing down the important points you want to get across so that you don't miss any of them when you're talking to her. For example:
1. You care about her a great deal
2. You want her to be happy
3. You think this relationship is only making the two of you unhappy


Besides, there's no reason the two of you can't give it another go in a few years when you're more capable of having a mature, meaningful relationship. (Don't ever tell a partner this during a breakup, though. It's just mean to lead them on like that.)

[NMS-Mix]

I know this thread is old but, this happened to but she was even 2 grades older than me but her mother was too lazy to go through the hassle of getting her her license. We sort of agreed to wait and just stay really good friends but tat could get awkward. Shes dating someone now (sort of dating) but we talk. You just have to let what happens happen.

[ironichipstertrash]

i never had a boy friend
i enjoy hooking up
i love life
try it