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Post by zAkAtAk on Jul 15, 2010 21:41:42 GMT -5
HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
best post on this forum.
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Post by Rogers91 on Jul 15, 2010 22:15:24 GMT -5
well besides the fact that im a 19 year old virgin i have friends who have had enough experience.. some right infront of me... very awkward.... not the point though.. i had a friend who was 14 and was raped by a 37 year old cop... messed up and wrong on every level... oddly enough she is now dateing a guy thats only 5 years older than her and she will be turning 18 eventualy... another friend is 19 and is dateing a 50 year old with a police record a mile long.. then something i will never understand the oldest of all my friends who is now almost 21 is dateing a high schooler...
ohh all my friends are chicks... soo yeah i dont know about age... it seems its just a number and sex is just an act...
yet im still... i need a life..
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Post by Seriost on Jul 20, 2010 11:31:06 GMT -5
You'd be surprised by some of these kids these days. Each generation is getting shorter and ruder, there's no telling what they're thinking about at age 6 nowadays. Rofl. They can't even get hard, let alone have proper sexual feelings. I doubt it. I know this reply is really late but I just had to reply to this one. I've been working at daycare this summer at a school. It's weird that just the example you mentioned happened to me. At the daycare there was this 6 year old little girl that in my eyes represented everything bad about the new generation. When I was messing with the kids and just sort of throwing them around she kept doing these disgusting grabs towards my... You get the point. I can tell that whatever people might think is possible or not possible can change. When I was 6 I thought about building treehouses with my best friend, wrestling in school with my buddies and having the coolest pokémon cards. Today children have cellphones, full access to internet (including porn) and youtube, most of the time parents can't stop their children from watching series that'd do a bad inpact on them and most of the time the main point of every episode in the series is the guys finding a woman to sex up. This is how the new generation works, it's total chaos in my opinion, and it disgusts me.
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Post by profoundlemon on Jul 21, 2010 4:25:26 GMT -5
Hmm... I definitely think that it depends from person to person. And I think the confidence in your readiness to have sex is very multi-faceted. To me, it has a lot to do with what happens after, and the consequences of having sex at a young age with (possibly) someone in your school. What if it was terrible? I don't know a lot of young teens (12-15) that could deal very well with that. Obviously, it depends on the person. But, c'mon. You've got to at least be part way through puberty.
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Post by olsonche13 on Jul 22, 2010 1:24:50 GMT -5
In my opinion, you shouldn't do anything like that until you are married, so whatever age the person gets married at is when it is okay... anything before that is too young...
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Post by rimacrob on Jul 22, 2010 5:44:53 GMT -5
In my opinion, you shouldn't do anything like that until you are married, so whatever age the person gets married at is when it is okay... anything before that is too young... So if two tribes were to marry each tribe's youngest member, as a peace treaty those two can have sex. Also, I'm sure that doesn't apply to people who are married in churches who teach of a god you don't believe in. I believe when the two (more or less, I guess) partakers in the act think they're ready, it's okay.
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Post by James McClelland on Jul 22, 2010 14:42:55 GMT -5
In my opinion, you shouldn't do anything like that until you are married, so whatever age the person gets married at is when it is okay... anything before that is too young... 20% of Americans between the age of 18 and 65 will be divorced sometime in their life time...that's 1/5th of all Americans, 60,000,000 people. Around 600 people in the Pogotribe will divorce sometime in their lifetimes. Waiting till marriage to have sex...yeah, no.
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Post by Lex on Jul 22, 2010 15:41:39 GMT -5
In my opinion, you shouldn't do anything like that until you are married, so whatever age the person gets married at is when it is okay... anything before that is too young... In some country where two twelve year olds get married. They're all good, yet the unmarried forty year olds aren't? It's a question of maturity (and age somewhat), not marriage.
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Post by NormanTheOne on Jul 22, 2010 21:43:45 GMT -5
Someone shouldn't die a virgin if they decide to not marry someone (or don't have choice to not marry.) Maturity really is the key factor, as well as the laws.
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Post by James McClelland on Jul 22, 2010 22:00:15 GMT -5
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Post by bgreen on Jul 25, 2010 21:24:55 GMT -5
Fact Of Awkwardness: a male human fetus has been observed masturbating as early as 28 weeks...while still in the womb!! O.O That said, everybody's body is different and sometimes hormones make people who aren't ready for sex think they are. Between 10 and 20 we begin to discover and develop our sexuality. that's all I have to say.
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Post by Benyamin on Jul 29, 2010 23:54:19 GMT -5
WTF
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Post by NormanTheOne on Jul 30, 2010 6:15:49 GMT -5
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Post by kalaway on Jul 30, 2010 9:33:20 GMT -5
i think before 14 for females is too young and before 12 for males is too young... but but really it depends on a persones matturity really if your male and you think your readdy at 11 or go for it. on the flipside if your 19 and decide to be temporarely abstinent thats fine too. You think that in general a male is mentally and emotionally prepared for sex at a younger age than a female? I tend to think the opposite. From what I've observed, males, especially in puberty, have less control over their sexuality than females, and are thus less likely to make responsible choices. I do agree that maturity is more important than age. I know that even at 18 I wouldn't have handled sex well, whereas I know others who matured in different ways who I could see being responsible at 16 or 17. But I do think that 12, 13, 14, and even 15 is too young. I don't know that I've ever met a 15 year old who I thought, 'Wow, they are extremely mature and clearly prepared to tackle adult decisions and be 100% responsible for their own bodies.' We don't even allow 15 year olds to drive by themselves, lest they run themselves into a tree because they were talking on the phone. I wouldn't expect the average 15 year old to make wise decisions regarding partners, safety, and the use of contraceptives, not to mention the emotional side of sex.
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Post by repona on Jul 30, 2010 18:14:16 GMT -5
Hmh, you have all just been discussing about age and maturity? Well that's the topic here, but I think that even more important thing than the age- when thinking what's the right time to start having sex- is the partner. It's not just about you, it's also about who you are having it with.
I think that the right time to start having meaningless sex just with someone is after you have turned 20, or maybe never. I'm not saying that the question is silly, I'm just trying to make a point here.
It's not about the age, it's about relationship. The safest way to start having sex it with someone who cares about you and who you can talk about it. You may be dating the someone already when you're 14, or you may have to wait until you're 30.
Combo is all that matters. Okay, ofcourse there are the biological views as well, which I do second.
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Post by richarddhagenn on Jul 30, 2010 21:17:11 GMT -5
This is interesting cause I just got done watching Dan Browns videos on Sex.
I believe that not only age has a huge part of sex, but aswell as the maturity of the relationship.
Face it, if you see a couple that has been together for a week (for the first time, not a second or third try at the relationship.) there is no way, in my eye, that, that relationship can be mature enough and strong enough to handle the physical and mental effects that sex does indeed have on a relationship.
Sex does change things, now, I have a feeling that someone may look at my profile and say, "oh what the hell do you know, you're sixteen years old." Okay, thats fine, thats your oppinion, but so is all of this.
I also feel like sex is a topic that needs to be talked about before taking place, I don't think jumping into things is really the best option for anyone, ever, no matter the circumstances. I feel that people need to be ready for changes that take place in a persons life, a big change like sex to the mental and physical aspect of a person, should be talked about and prepared for, before hand.
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Post by 7 on Aug 2, 2010 0:02:07 GMT -5
It's just sex.
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Post by Lex on Aug 2, 2010 0:04:09 GMT -5
With sex, I'd never have this hook-up/meaningless sex sort of thing. I just find it appalling.
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Post by 7 on Aug 2, 2010 0:08:28 GMT -5
With sex, I'd never have this hook-up/meaningless sex sort of thing. I just find it appalling. Yes, but even then. It's just sex.
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Post by Jackson on Aug 4, 2010 0:08:07 GMT -5
With sex, I'd never have this hook-up/meaningless sex sort of thing. I just find it appalling. I totally agree. It's morally questionable to have sex before marriage and you have to deal with the consequences for the rest of your life.
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